Do you spend all your spare time in front of your computer? Are you eager to surf the net all the time? Do you find it more interesting to sit at home at the computer then going out? Are you comunicating with your friends only through the internet? Do you do all your shopping using your computer? Do you feel safer talking through a chat room than face to face?
If you identify yourself with any of this questions, there is a great chance you're an internet addict. An internet addict can be defined as someone who can't stand to be separated from their computer. Internet addicts often make up characters for themselves to use when comunicating in chat rooms, mostly because they have emotional and/or self-esteem problems. Many internet addicts fear going outside, because they feel safe behind the computer screen.
What can you do to change it, you ask. The first, and most important thing to do is to turn off your computer and go out to the real world. Get you life back! You have to face your fears and start comunicating in person. If you have a friend or someone you know who's been in the same situation, talk to them. They may be a good help, and they know that you're going through. You will find out that real friendship happens outside the internet.
Do we give the proper value?
Aren’t we forgetting the real value of what surrounds us? Do we look at things with objectivity? Can we remember that we are just lucky to be born here, in this side of the planet? Do we hardly leave our stressed lives and our small world to think about injustice, war, hunger, that millions of human beings are suffering? If so, it is time to stop that tendency and save what should be better in each of us, in all human kind, that is, feelings of compassion, solidarity, capacity of feeling.
And why does it happen? Is it frightening to go on to the other side? I think that it is more comfortable for us, to treat those problems as a hermetical environment, a place where we don’t want to go often. But I’m sure that, even if we are blind, one day it will overlap on us.
We treat our lives as microcosms of the world, we want it to be perfect, and we work for it. However, in order to be really happy, we must use our skills, use our intelligence, our heart, basically we are not outsiders of the humanity and its problems, but instead we have to assume our responsibilities and start working for a better world, to leave a legacy to the future.
After we realise what the object is, we can start thinking in all those protagonists of an unfair world. And then, we will remember when we take a simple glass of water, that millions have no drinking water at all and must walk several miles to obtain only a few litters and most of them are vulnerable children. We must imperatively appreciate the small things near us. Absolutely never forget to appreciate life, family, music, silence, peace, beauty, nature, children, company, laughs, friendship, books…(and so on).
Basically, I wrote about this theme because of the book I just finished reading, called “The Book Thief”, from Marcus Zusak, an Australian writer. This book tells us about a little girl living through the World War II. One passage from the book describes us how important small things are. Liesel receives from a neighbour the ration portion of coffee, a true treasure in those days, in exchange for reading a book, sometimes in Frau Holtzapfel`s house and other times inside the anti-bomb shelter.
Somehow we will manage to be complete human beings, despite this modern life which is fragmented by technologies and stress, and I’m sure, we will finally be able to continuously communicate and share our feelings.
Paula
18/o1/2009
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A new experience
Hello!I´m Paula , I´m 42 years-old and I´m living in Lisbon but I spend my weekends in a country house!
I feel passion for my daughter and my family.
During the year, I use to go several times to Prague ,in order to visit my child that´s currently studying Medicine there. I just love that city, we can go everyday to concerts or ballet cheaper than the cinema. My hobbies are books, books, books, music , music , music ( classical/opera). My favourite performer was, is Maria Callas.
I also spend my free time, taking care of my garden and cooking, when possible I attend to some workshops to learn more about foreign cuisines and painting.
I´m always dreaming about the next travel!
At this point of my life I´m completely focused in my studies, I´m loving this new experience.
Best Wishes!
Prague
Merry Christmas
When snow is shaken
From the balsam trees
And they're cut down
And brought into our houses
When clustered sparks
Of many-colored fire
Appear at night
In ordinary windows
We hear and sing
The customary carols
They bring us ragged miracles
And hay and candles
And flowering weeds of poetry
That are loved all the more
Because they are so common
But there are carols
That carry phrases
Of the haunting music
Of the other world
A music wild and dangerous
As a prophet's message
Or the fresh truth of children
Who though they come to us
From our own bodies
Are altogether new
With their small limbs
And birdlike voices
They look at us
With their clear eyes
And ask the piercing questions
God alone can answer.
Anne Porter
Merry Christmas ,
Paula
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